Christening Gifts and a Godparent's Duties – Spare a Thought for the Queen

How many godchildren do you have? Two …Look down the list of The Queen’s
maybe three? Some of us may even be able togodchildren and it is easy to see ties and
boast as many as half a dozen or so. Well spareconnections being strengthened and alliances
a thought for The Queen. At the last count,forged. One of The Queen’s first godsons
Queen Elizabeth II had amassed a grand total ofwas Crown Prince Alexander of Yugoslavia, her
30 godchildren.last goddaughter was Princess Theodora of
For us mere mortals, choosing an appropriateGreece. There are Barons, Dukes and Viscounts
Christening gift, remembering a birthday or findingscattered about all over the place. And when you
another Christmas present, on top of providingdo find someone on the list who sounds just like
the occasional piece of pithy moral and spiritualthe rest of us – take George Herbert for
advice, can be taxing at the best of times. Soexample – he turns out to be an earl … the
how does The Queen manage with thirty little8th Earl of Carnarvon to be exact. Yes, becoming
souls to guide?a godparent really is a case of “keeping it in
Well, firstly we can assume that she doesn’tthe family.”
spend too much time pottering around the shopsHowever, as The Queen so correctly observed:
trying to find that special Christening gift. Similarly,“Like all the best families, we have our share
an equerry will probably remind her when theof eccentricities, of impetuous and wayward
next birthday is due and a Lady-in-Waiting or ayoungsters and of family disagreements.” So,
Woman of the Bedchamber will be on hand toif we look a bit further down the list of godsons,
recommend the most popular Christmas presentswe find Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer,
for the little darlings. I think we are safe inbrother of Diana, Princess of Wales. The Queen
assuming that the godchildren don’t comewas present at his Christening on 14 July 1964 in
high on that list of forgotten jobs that keeps thethe Henry VII Chapel at Westminster Abbey. It's
rest of us awake at 3am in the morning.worth considering, that the next time they faced
The Queen has also spread her responsibilitieseach other in Westminster Abbey was at
over a few decades. To tell the truth, most ofDiana’s funeral when Earl Spencer read his
the little darlings aren’t really thatmoving and rather controversial eulogy in front of
“little” at all. The oldest godson is now wella global TV audience of around 2.5 billion viewers.
into his sixties, whilst the youngest goddaughter isAs a final note, you should be aware that The
already in her twenties. So, with a bit of judiciousQueen is not alone in taking on numerous
planning, The Queen has managed to dilute hergodchildren. Prince Charles already has thirty-three
godparent’s duties over time.godchildren, while Prince William started assuming
Part of a godparent’s purpose is bindinggodparental responsibility way back in 1999. His
ever-tighter links between friends and family.first chosen godson followed family tradition; he
Never has this been more true than in the casewas Prince Konstantine Alexios of Greece.
of the old family firm that is “Royalty.”