Christmas is Coming: Can You Help Someone by Shopping For Them?

ow your gift list is ready to tackle and you areaisles trying to find the best possible prices for
probably already shopping for those on your list,her mom’s gifts.
but the question is: Can you help someone thatEllee’s range is under $5 per person for
you know better enjoy the holidays by doing theirthe gifts her mom gives, and she reports being
holiday shopping for them?able to mark off several names from the list with
Our friend Ellee reports that for the past fiveitems she found in an online store such as the
years she has shopped for the gifts her momfollowing:
gives the 31 members of her family. As her* Gourmet popcorn
mother’s strength, mobility, and* Gourmet pretzels
endurance faded, but her desire to be an active* Gourmet saltwater taffy
participant in the traditional holiday gift-giving* Thai iced tea
process actually seemed to intensify as she held* Tortuga rum punch mix
on to every expression of involvement she could* Tortuga gourmet cooking sauces
muster, Ellee realized that one of the greatest* Tortuga conch chowder
gifts she could give her mom was to do theFor those secret pal and other at-work gifts that
shopping.fall within the $5-$10 range, she’s
Ironically for a woman who defies help around theconsidering the following:
house, resists all forms of interference that* Artifical flowers, like Orchids
suggests she is losing her grip on things, and* Tortuga Gourmet wildflower and citrus honey
resists changes to her lifestyle that might even* Artistic wood earrings handcrafted in Thailand
make things like preparing her meals a little easier,And, for her own list of family and friends,
Ellee’s mom readily relinquished theshe’s looking seriously at things in the $10
responsibilities for gift buying.- $25 range like the following:
She gets confused in big department stores,* Artistic wood necklaces handcrafted in Thailand
doesn’t really understand the things the* 2.2 pound bags of fresh natural spices
younger generation appreciates, and never got* Tortuga Rum Fever cook book
into using the Internet for shopping online. The* Thai silk pillow cases
perfect solution was to let someone else do theFor those extra special people on her list, like her
shopping.mom, Ellee is deciding between a piece of
Besides, Ellee is known for being a superb bargainSilverLily jewelry or a piece of Thai silk clothing.
hunter who shops all year and knows a good dealAnd, should a rich old aunt or uncle ask her to do
when she sees one. Her mom is not financiallythe shopping for them, she says she is definitely
able to afford much more than a token gift forgoing for gemstone jewelry and teak furniture to
each of those on her list who range from afill that list.
two-year-old great-granddaughter to her firstLook around you. Do you have a relative,
born daughter who’s approach 64 yearsneighbor, or friend who is physically unable to shop
old. The mix of men, women, children, and agebut who’d get a great deal of pleasure
groups means a wide variety of items must beout of giving? Consider giving them the gift of
sought, and Ellee tries to find things that areyour time and do the shopping for them.
useful and in many cases consumable so they areShopping online makes it very easy to give these
not lingering around as dust collectors, regifted, orpeople one of the best gifts you could offer
donated unused.them: an online shopping spree. In fact, let the
This year, Ellee says online shopping sites are agiver sit with you while you navigate so he or she
major convenience due to time limitations and thewill feel involved.
mere cost of spending time milling around bargain