| Ladies, have you been in a relationship with a guy | | | | level? Maybe it's time to back off and turn that |
| for a while and it seems to be doing great, but | | | | over to your boyfriend. Let him set the pace and |
| this guy keeps saying maybe the two of you | | | | direction the two of you go and you might find |
| should see other people? The relationship is off | | | | that he sticks around. He will feel he is in control |
| for a while then he comes back to you again, | | | | and can move forward at his pace and be much |
| things would get serious then he would back off | | | | more comfortable. |
| again? If this has been going on with you then | | | | You could tell your boyfriend how you feel about |
| something is going on in your relationship to cause | | | | his separations and that you will give him another |
| him to do this. | | | | chance at it. Tell him if decides he needs to leave |
| One reason this could be happening is you may be | | | | again then its off for good. Let him know that he |
| putting to much pressure on him right now to | | | | is control of the pace of the relationship and you |
| make more of a commitment. This is not to say | | | | may find he will be accepting of this idea. Only |
| he is not interested in you, he may really want to | | | | thing you ask of him is not to see other girls. |
| be with you. The thing is you may be taking too | | | | Now that he is in control and not receiving any |
| much responsibility in this relationship when your | | | | pressure from you to get more serious you |
| boyfriend should be more in control. | | | | should find that the relationship will be much |
| Do you control how the relationship goes? Do you | | | | better. The excuse that he previously had is gone |
| try to push the relationship to a more serious | | | | and he should now be more committed. |