Finding Freedom Through the Body Connection

Freedom: Choice; Openness; Candor; Freewell worth it! For me, I have found the freedom
expression; Abundance; Space; Being Fluid &to be comfortable in my body, to listen and honor
Flexible; Acceptance; Surrender; Playful;what my body is telling me, to be more authentic,
Spontaneous; Pleasure; Lack of restriction.to feel free to speak my truth, to feel the
Lack of Freedom: Restriction; Imprisonment;deliciousness of loving myself more deeply and a
Constriction; Contraction; No Choice; Limitation;deeper accepting of who I am. Plus, I have
Habitual responses; Fear; Stuck; Unworthy;learned that when something uncomfortable or
Trapped: No pleasure; No time."restricted" shows up in the body, it is actually
Freedom is a word that comes up a lot. As angood news. Why? Because by going into the
integrative Physical Therapist who specializes inbody, we can find a roadmap to our true
total mind-body healing, especially emotionalfreedom as we release, reclaim and forgive parts
& trauma release from the body, I hearof ourselves that we may have cast aside.
statements like this all the time: "I want to beSo, back to my client. What do you think
free of this pain & restriction in my body"; "Ihappened when we moved into an expanded
want to be free of this issue in my life"; "I wish Iplace of positive and loving thoughts? Try this ....
could express myself freely"; "I want financialthink of something that upsets you and FEEL into
freedom;" "I just want to be free of this patternyour body. How does it respond? Now think of
in my relationships". Whether it's work, health,something positive, fun, something you love... what
body image, emotions, you name it, the bottomhappens in your body? (Is it easier to breath;
line is that we want more freedom in our lives.more relaxed; are your muscles softer?) When I
Can you relate?asked my client to do this and speak what was
So what does this have to do with the body?present for her, the first word out of her mouth
How can the practice of radical body awarenesswas FREEDOM!
help us gain the freedom we so dearly desire?Yes! When we connect to what is happening in
Simple ..... and not so simple. The body is a mapour body we find the freedom we are longing for.
and as a blueprint it shows us where we are freeBy allowing ourselves to slow down, feel inside,
or not free. The obvious ways that clearlyembrace what is present, become aware of what
indicate a lack of freedom on the physical levelis truly going on for us, we give ourselves the
are the places in the body that reflect pain,opportunity to feel our truth, which then flows
tightness, disease etc. Less obvious is that thereinto our life. Ah... doesn't that feel good?!
is always a corresponding lack of freedom on theThis is not to say that we are going to feel
emotional, mental & spiritual levels. Often, it isfabulous during this process of awakening into our
the lack of freedom on these 'other' levels thatFreedom. It is about the process. I know I can be
creates the physical restriction in the first place.extremely connected and in my flow then
Here's an example. Recently a woman came tosomething throws me off (someone says or
my office with pain in her neck and radiating intodoes something, I don't sleep well, I have pain in
her eyes that was not responding to "standard"my body) and I get off balance. However, noticing
treatment. As we connected with this painthe reaction in my body and being aware I have
through hands-on manipulation, breath, intentioncontracted, tightened, feel "off", allows me to
and awareness, it became obvious that she waswork with, embrace, feel and listen to it. By
holding a tremendous amount of fear in this area.sensing and feeling my world through my body I
On deeper exploration it became clear the fearam more easily able to assess what is happening
was caused by repetitive negative &to me and how I need to take care of myself.
catastrophic thoughts (ie, fear of being in a carI have deep respect for body knowledge. When I
crash, fear of being alone, fear of illness). As alive my life including my body I feel the
result, in her body, she described feeling tight,satisfaction of living. Most of all, I feel the deep
contracted, disconnected, stuck. She felt herconnection to source (mine and Spirit's) and that
completely shut down, with no feeling of hergives me tremendous Freedom. To me, true
body, and only aware of her overactive mind. InFreedom can only come when we inhabit our
other words... lack of freedom.body and live a body-mind existence.
I know how she feels. I understand the bodyThree TIPS to Freedom:
contraction that comes when I get angry or1. Take a deep breath and feel into your body.
anxious. The body naturally contracts andWhat are you aware of? Awareness is the first
restricts, when there is pain, disease, fear orstep.
judgment at the mental and emotional levels or2. Shake your body - shake your body loose.
we feel separated at a spiritual level. This is ourWhen you stop, become aware of the possibility
sign to pay attention! When we can bring inof more open space inside.
awareness, compassion, forgiveness and healing3. Find a somatic or integrative body therapist to
at these levels, we open the doors to gainwork with you specifically with your body &
freedom in every part of our lives, including thehealth issues. Remember working with the body
physical body.towards your desired Freedom is not a "quick fix"
There are many techniques to journey into thebut a process over time. The body holds the
body (and a whole subcategory of psychologytruth, and sometimes it takes some extra
called body psychotherapy, or somaticsupport to get to the core of your healing. You
psychology), and I use many of them in myare worth it!
personal and professional practice. The results are