Marriages in Sunni Culture

Muslims are an important part of the Indianconsidered as the bride's home until marriage.
tradition; they are the ones who fill the colours ofThe uptan is applied almost every day till the
joy and happiness in the Indian culture with theirmarriage to the bride by one of the middle aged
rich customs and traditional values. Though arewomen of the family. The same ceremony is also
supposed to be growing modern, but still somewitnessed at the groom's house, where he is
sects of the Muslim religion are there, who followapplied with uptan, by his mother and sisters.
the orthodox traditions of the Muslim culture, oneMehandi: a day before the marriage, the Sunni
of which is Sunni's. Sunni's are defined as thebride is applied with heena paste on her palms by
orthodox Muslims, who took birth before theseven married women of the family. The mehandi
Shia's.is sent by the groom's mother along with fruits
The marriage rituals in the Sunni's start daysand sweets. Same ceremony is also observed in
before the actual nikaah, the ceremonies are verythe groom's house.
traditional and full of rituals. The dresses of theSehrabandi: It is a ceremony where the groom is
Sunni bride and groom are very beautiful andtied with a string of golden threads or flowers on
define their cultural values and believe. Startinghis turban, after which he leaves for the bride's
from the formal engagement of the couple tohouse for the wedding ceremony or nikaah,
their marriage, following are some of the ritualsaccompanied by a number of his men friends and
celebrated in a Sunni marriage:relatives called baratis. A band of musicians lead
Nizbat: It is the formal announcement for thethe baraat, playing all the popular songs of the
engagement of the couple. The groom's familyseason with the family members dancing with the
fully loaded with gifts and sweets visits the bride'stune.
house, where close relatives and friends areNikaah: The matrimony ceremony in Muslims is
invited to attend the ceremony, the alliance of thecalled Nikaah, and a mutual agreement is signed
couple is then announced to the society. Thecalled the nikahnama. After the baraat reaches
groom is not present in this ceremony. Thethe wedding venue, the bride's family welcomes
groom's family is served with snacks and sweets,the guess with great respect. A qazi, or the vakil,
after which the date for the marriage is decided.is made to read the nikahnama loudly to both the
Mangni: It is the engagement of the bride and thebride and the groom, which after their acceptation
groom, in which the groom along with his familyby saying Qubool hai, is signed by them. Sunnat,
and friends goes to the house of the bride andthe announcement of the marriage is done
the bride is gifted with clothes, jewellery andimmediately after the acceptation, post which the
sweets by her future mother- in- law and formaldry fruits or sweets are distributed.
meeting of the bride with the groom is made inAarsi Mussahaf: After the Nikaah ceremony, the
front of the society.mother and sisters of the groom sees the bride
Milaad Sharif: Its is also called thanksgivingas a part of muh- dikhayi and gifts her cloth and
ceremony, where the ladies of both the housesjewellery, which are weared by the bride and she
come together as a part of religious gathering andcomes out with the attire, marking the sanctity
spirituals books and prayers are read in taranum.of a newly wed- bride, with her face fully
This ceremony is done in Sunni's to thank god forcovered with the dupatta. Now the newly wed
granting the auspicious occasion of wedding.sunni couple is made to sit together and the
Mayun and Uptan: the ritual is performed 8- 15groom wears an 'aarsi' on his thumb, which he
days before the actual wedding ceremony. In thispositions in a way, that he can see his wife's face
the would- be Sunni bride is made to go underin it. Gifts and sweets are presented to the
mayun, i.e. in a seclusion state in which her fewgroom by the bride's family, following which a
actions are restricted till the day of marriage, thehuge meal is served to the guests.
bride's mother do some ritual to protect her fromAfter the wedding ceremony and the feast the
the evil's eye, after which she applies her withbride is made to leave her maternal house as a
uptan, a mixture of turmeric powder, sandalwoodpart of the vidai ceremony, which is the most
power and aromatic oils. This is to beautify theemotional moment for the bride as she leaves
girl's looks and to add glow on her face for her D-her childhood house with all the precious memories
day of life. A yellow cloth is also spread acrossand heads towards her husband's house in a new
her room, the area under which has to belife with a new beginning.