| When questioned after an affair, many women | | | | for many men. Each woman is unique in this |
| will blame their cheating on a lack of romance and | | | | regard but you can take some hints from what |
| passion in their relationship. The routine of the | | | | kind of movies she likes to watch, books she |
| relationship might become stale and predictable | | | | reads and by doing a little homework. |
| and the excitement and attention from a doting | | | | In addition to simply being perceptive in noticing |
| third party might be more than an unsatisfied | | | | what directly precedes any sort of positive |
| woman might be able to stand. | | | | change in her desire to be close to you, a fact |
| This is why it is so important that you should do | | | | finding mission might be in order. When you feel |
| your best to fulfill your partner's need for | | | | that the opportunity is right begin asking questions. |
| romance, intimacy and passion. Most men aren't | | | | For instance, if you're watching one of her |
| very good at reading the "signs" and seduction, in | | | | favorite movies ask her if she thinks that the |
| general, is a skill that most guys could use some | | | | leading man is hot. If she says that she does, ask |
| improvement with. | | | | her what she finds attractive about him. Is it his |
| The Little Things That Mean A Lot - It is often | | | | looks or the way that he kisses? Is it the things |
| said that it isn't the big things, like an expensive | | | | that he says in the movie or is it the way he |
| present for her birthday or anniversary, that | | | | dresses or is it his sense of humor? A lot can be |
| touch a woman's heart. Yes, remembering these | | | | learned by asking questions. Take notes either |
| important occasions is important, but it is the little | | | | mentally or write this stuff down so you don't |
| things that you do that will tell her that you care | | | | forget. |
| and create the foundation that leads to intimacy | | | | Touching - Something as simple as holding her |
| with your partner. Little things like filling up her gas | | | | hand when you're in the car or touching her back |
| tank in her car so she doesn't have to, leaving her | | | | when you are close to her can create and |
| little notes saying that you love her when she will | | | | maintain the connection that most women desire |
| find them later, a few hand picked flowers for | | | | with their man. Putting your arm across the back |
| her or a card just because you were thinking of | | | | of her chair when you are seated beside her or |
| her will mean more than an expensive piece of | | | | around her shoulder when you are walking shows |
| jewelry. | | | | that you care and want her close to you. |
| Knowing What To Say - Actively listening to her | | | | Cuddling on the couch and in bed at night are |
| and knowing what to say can make all the | | | | great with most women but some women are |
| difference in the world to a woman. Just listening | | | | funny about this. Some women can take it in |
| and agreeing with her and affirming for her that | | | | small doses and some might only wish to cuddle |
| you think that she is wonderful, intelligent and | | | | when they're in the mood. You will have to look |
| beautiful can be one of the biggest turn-ons for a | | | | for signs that she's not in the mood for cuddling |
| woman. Be sincere in your compliments and don't | | | | such as pulling away or not touching you back. For |
| try to solve her problems. Usually she will just | | | | a woman that isn't in a cuddling mood such |
| want to talk or vent and have you share the | | | | unwanted touching can be annoying and |
| burden of whatever is troubling her. | | | | counterproductive. Figure out the signs and let her |
| At other times it is the witty banter that was | | | | body language tell you when she's in the mood |
| probably present when the two of you first got | | | | for cuddling and when she isn't. |
| together that can create intimacy and passion in | | | | Although this is just a short article on seduction |
| your relationship. Flirt with her! You might be | | | | you can see that seduction is an art. It is about |
| surprised how powerful one little compliment can | | | | more than just your handsome good looks or lack |
| be. Tell her how beautifully her eyes sparkle when | | | | there of. Seduction is about knowing and acting |
| she smiles. Tell her how hot you think she looks | | | | upon what you know will turn your partner on. |
| just after she gets out of the shower. Go | | | | Many things will be similar with many different |
| overboard and really make her feel beautiful and | | | | women but each woman has her own particular |
| desirable. You are the mirror through which she | | | | hot buttons that will secure your place in her |
| sees how attractive she is. | | | | heart forever. Once you do that you have very |
| Knowing What Turns Her On - Figuring out | | | | few worries about infidelity and you will have a |
| exactly what flips her switch can be complicated | | | | very happy woman on your hands. |